VN Scooter - am i being ab i t c h?

am i being ab i t c h?

okay...so my bf told me that hes tired of driving so he bought a scooter...the thing is I HAVE NEVER BEEN ON SCOOTER/MOTORBIKE BEFORE AND I HATE IT.. but since i love him..i said " ooh i cant wait to try it!!"..actually i dont like to picture myself sitting on a scooter at the back holding my bf's waist...i just..I HATE IT!! am i being a bitch?? its not like im a choosy.he drive a toyota caldina and i dont mind that..if im being a rich bitch i would rather date guy who has bmw or mercedes.. so....my question is am i being ab i t c h? am i too choosy?

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I wouldn't go so far as to call you a bitch. I just think that maybe you should be a bit more honest with him, that you'd prefer it if he drove a car.
if you don't like it don't do it, it's not safe anyway for either of you, tell him that
Try it out! you may like it!! And yeah your kinda being ab i t ch. And maybe a bit spoiled at then but just try it out!
If you don't like it just tell him. And yeah you're being a spoiled bitch for sure. Geez, I wish my boyfriend would just buy a BMW or Mercedes just so I felt safe.
NO WAY are you a **** ; Your life and safety are at stake here . Tell me, who in the world is better qualified to decide that . He is the one that is inconsiderate . Ladies don't have to sit on scooters and look messy if they don't like it ! All that wind, sand, rain or sun is too much of a good thing .Forget it . I am looking at it from your point of view not my own, as I have owned and driven a Honda motorcycle for 10 years before my knees went bad . You have absolutely no control over your fate on that scooter when you are not in charge . Would he let you operate it and he sits on the back ? Wise up and don't feel guilty for one minute .
no your not i would never go on it as well tell him your scared
You are choosy... bitch doesnt see couch they are sitting on...
If you have never done it, I don't see how you can say you hate it, unless you have a fear of being hurt, which is a valid emotion about it. Insist that he buy you a helmet and leather clothes with protective knee and elbow pads to wear while riding it. If he says you don't need them, then forget the whole thing and don't ride it. I have seen too many people killed because they weren't wearing a helmet and wearing regular clothes won't protect you from "road burn" if the bike suddenly winds up sideways. I know of a woman who has metal pins and screws holding the bones in her arm together because of a wreck she had several years ago. You don't want to wind up like she did. And I don't think you are being unreasonable from the fear of injury standpoint. Motorbikes are dangerous and can cause great harm if the rider isn't skilled in their use. Even skilled people have wrecks if other drivers in cars can't drive properly. However, if you don't want it because it isn't "stylish" or will make you "look inferior" while going around, then you are being unreasonable. Check your motives because attitude is an important part of a relationship.
you prefer not to do that and its your style. You aren't being a B but you should tell him you don't want to cause he is gonna be waiting to take you on that ride and you gonna have to brush him off
no, i dont blame you for not wanting to ride on a scooter
Don't knock it til you try it. You might like it. If you don't then tell him.
no i doint think ur beigh a bicth, ur probley just scaird. everyone has a fere of something.
uckk men!! haha yeah um i would not be on a scooter.. what was he thinkin?? men i will never fiugure them out! butno not too choosy.. and shitty car is way better then a nerdy scooter!!
I have a BMW but I'm married.
I say give it a try you might like it. If you don;t like it then tell him honestly how you feel.
It's ok to not want to ride on a scooter, but why does it have to be all about what HE drives? What do you drive? Why can't you both go in your vehicle if it matters that much. And if you don't own a vehicle, then you probably don't have much to complain about.
Its his money he can do what ever he wants with it. and i like motorbikes and scooters more that cars,lol. more romantic :P
Well at least you BF saves money on gas. Buy your own scooter. You will have more room. Or get a car. I mean dont be selfish. Riding scooters is acctually a lot of fun. Try it on your own =]
no. you're not. scooters arent stylish at all, but they save a buttload on gas. keep that in mind. with th cash he'll be saving, you'll probably be gettin some nice gifts!
your not being a b i t c h juss tell him how u feel about the scooter im sure he'll understand hope that helpz
No, I don't think your being selfish. Just tell him how you feel in a nice way. He should respect your feelings and compromise towards something else to accompany you.